Category Archives: Love & Life

OUTSIDE THE CROWD

She’ll be strong,She’ll be keeping herself untill the day of her wedding under the right ceilling,for the right person,A person deserving of a special kind of loving.Special kind of Girl,hard to come-by.She’s for the one,God will send to fulfill her kind of craving…Lots of guys has being up to her but she says,”She is waiting”People started to say,”All that she want is more than a Mr.Right”But all that she wants is good love:A Man,who sees the light;One with lots of understanding,A man,who’s got a heart. Got a lot of respect for her,for her kind is so rare.It’s kind of hard to imagine but she’s out there.

Keep the fire burning

PESSIMISSIM is one very little but big Parasite,one should never bring along with them into their Relational or love life.It is absolutely creepy in nature and comes-in-very- handy;hence stamping the fire off of so many relationship today.Pessimissm likes to live in the mind and carry out its destructive operations in a slowly-progressive fashion from there,providing its victim has given it a chance.
Isn’t heartbreaking, when a once healthy relationship suddenly begins to uncontrollably shiver from catching too much common cold?Oftentimes when this happens,people may tend to attribute those seemingly physical issues that might have been significant enough to draw the attention of the senses as its most possible cause,which in most cases happens to be true but one underlying fact that may be left begging for recognition is that, waiting to reveal,at some occasion,the fundamental causes of such ailment in the body of such a relationship.Such a cause can then be simply defined as the end-product/effect of every negative thoughts that has been consumed by either or both partners.digested,absolved, circulated and distributed to every living cells of such a relationship.Any relationship,which has a pessimistic partner involved,could suffer from such common cold at not normal frequencies.An addicted pessimistic person are able to accept pro-created imaginations as in negative thoughts that are capable of destroying one’s ability to hope for ‘good’ and as well as could kill happiness- and have them nursed in their mind,hence resulting in depression as well as terminal lack of interest in what they do.A victim of pessimism might also lack the ability to be passionate about what they do;reluctant to mind,even if their life depends on such thing.
To this end:I’m prescribing OPTIMISM as that effective drug you need to get rid of Pessimissm.No matter what that situation may be,remember that excessive worries will not be able to solve even a tiny bit of it,so worry less and be happy rather.Stand up against those negative thoughts that may be trying to find its way into your mind and say NO! to it.Do not allow it to come and stay no matter how hard it tries.If genuine love,a kind you have never had any cause to doubt about ,has never ceased to being the basis of that relationship,then allow no parasite as pessimissm,arising from any form of matter crawl up into your mind now.Practically eject it and lighten once again that dying flame of your relationship.You should as well communicate the danger that pessimism stands to pose to your relationship and love life to your partner in the sense of general discussion or if you are perceiving they are beginning to live extremely much in their mind.I think a lovely partner would be grateful you did.

Second thought (2)

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Don’t you think it is possible to keep those promises even for the rest of your life?
Why must one fulfill their selfish interest at all cost and never care to mind the pains their actions eventually inflict on others?
Why would you not want to continue treating that partner of yours in the same kind and lovely manner with which you had treated them at the very first time and as a result,had have them gain confidence in you? Does it mean your own integrity is a questionable one? is it very necessary to do what everyone else are doing;that,that they tag,`common’ and feign ignorance about the fact that it is wrong?
Above all,where is the love?
The truth is this:if you genuinely love your partner,you should enjoy and be happily satisfied with every sex you have with them.You will be able to make something great out of lovemaking,providing you love and appreciate your partner.
The thought of cheating can not be nursed in a mind if love is in it.

Second thought (1)

Oftentimes,it saddens my heart whenever i hear it all over the places or even happened to have been a witness to cases of infidelity in relationships.Very common among most cases;A prospective or active cheating partner would usually create-out and feed their own mind with the excuse of;not gaining some imaginable wild form of sexual satisfaction from their partner in a bid to ward-off any sense of guilt that may be arising from their own conscience.
The most painful part is in the fact that,oftentimes,those who are being cheated-on happen to be some pretty good,nice and loyal fellow,who might have been putting in their possible best into almost everything they do in order that things work fine and well for all.
But the question are:
Aren’t they no longer that special man,woman you had needed so much to be in your life?
That nice and lovely fellow,who made life more meaninful for you and whom you had undoubtedly love…what about all those kindly made promises? to hell with them now?
To be cont…

4 qualities of a good and sustainable relationship

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It takes *love*trust*courage* & *faith* for a relationship to being successful and achieve success.

First,lets talk about the quality,called love.Generally,it can simply be defined as a feeling of tender affection for somebody or something.Love as it is,has become the base on which so many relationships  are created today.Oftentimes,love is very commonly used and the fact that it has suffered from precarious interpretations can not be over-emphasized.So therefore,it is imperative that one knows what love is all about, like its characteristics,features and  possibly attributes.The Bible speaks so much too about love as it is related even to our relational life.The Apostle Paul’s first letter  to the Corinthians stands as a well founded example;

“Love is patient and kind;it is not jealous or conceited or proud ;love is not ill-mannered or selfish or irritable;love does not keep a record of wrongs;love is not happy with evil,but is happy with the truth.Love never gives up;and its faith,hope,and patience never fail” 1st Corinthians  13 versus 4-7 (passage according to the GOOD NEWS BIBLE)

It is unavoidably necessary for one to know what kind of love a prospective partner is bringing to base before they should venture into a relationship.For instance a romantic love,possibly a sexually motivated relationship is likely to be short- lived,because after a partner must have satisfied his or her sexual need,they may call it quit,since they has no other reason to stay or continue with such relationship and as it used to be,if there were no prior agreement by both parties to take such action,it could be a case of one winning and the other losing;and this usually causes pain to the one,who has lose.

Relationships that succeeds the most are those based on unconditional love.This kind of love is natural and has no material conditions.people that are involved experience boundless happiness,peace and joy in their relational life.They also tend to meet each other’s needs in every aspect.Here,love is regarded as life and there is great respect,care and appreciation for each other.In unconditional love,love is not practised selfishly but rather selflessly.

Does your partner loves you as he or she does for themselves?Do they have the willingness and the tendency to treat you as they will like to be treated? I think those are some of the questions you need to ask yourself and find out about.when you’re done with your findings and it happens to be that the answers to those questions is *yes*then,be rest assured that *true love* is certainly in place.

Having known that,then you should ensure to create time  to talk extensively and effectively about *trust* see to it,that you and your partner are able to agree on trustworthiness.If you truly love your partner,you need to show them that you really love, care  and have the need for them as much and as well as they are committed and loyal to you and the relationship.You and your partner really need to trust,be honest and being truthful to each other.most importantly,know and have a sincere agreement as to what extent you both could go on trust,so as to prevent fears and doubts.Your partner would not be likely to betray your trust;providing they are worthy of it;as well as they truly love and care for you.

“Remember that you can not always trust the person you love but you can always love the person you trust”

Having perfected love and trust,courage and faith should be strongly,consistently and well utilized.